hello fellow blogger. I have a question or maybe it's advice that I am asking for. I have or had a male friend that I have only known for a little while since Feb 2010. He seemed OK at first he was single no kids and had a job. There were only two things that posed as a challenge to me which was his age and the distance to where he lived from me which the distance is not that big of a problem because I have a car and could drive to meet him. OK as our friendship grew I noticed he kept loosing things such as his apartment, job, money. All of those things that made him seem like a decent person with something going on. now he lost of of that but i stilled remained his friend but when i started to try and help him with jobs by giving him leads and asking him did you look for a job today. I was just trying to be supportive but he took it as nagging. Hey I am not the one without the job here and I was only trying to help or at least I thought. we shared some harsh words now he does not want to talk to me. was i wrong should i go back and apologize or should i say so long looser?